Every year, thousands of children experience the stress of their parents splitting up. Their reactions are going to vary child by child, and the way that they handle the trauma of their parents’ relationship breaking down is going to depend on the way that they are supported through it. No child out there expects their parents to stop being together. They don’t anticipate change. As far as a child is concerned, Mum and Dad stay together forever in the same home as a happy family. To suddenly go from that, to having two houses to sleep in and not seeing Dad everyday, is hard. It’s also ... read more
How to Apply to Become a Foster Carer
Starting your foster care application is an exciting time. It is the first step to becoming a positive force for change in the lives of young people. It’s the beginning of the journey to great rewards. However, do you know the steps you need to take to become a foster carer? Understand the role Before beginning a foster care application, it is crucial to fully understand the role of a foster carer. This is made difficult because the media doesn’t always present a realistic image. A foster carer is a highly distinct role. You will be providing the care and nurturance a young person ... read more
Why it’s Important to Have Access to Foster Support
If it takes a ‘village to raise a child’, it takes a town to raise a foster child. Whilst the foster carer is the child’s main carer, this is a demanding role that needs both foster carer support and support for the child. Foster carer support should be a primary factor to consider when choosing which body to be a foster carer through. The nature of foster carer needs Being a foster carer is like no other job out there. It’s not defined by neat working hours. It’s 24/7 for long periods of time, often months or years. Furthermore, it is by its very nature, ‘relational’. This means ... read more
Move Or Improve: Should You Extend or Sell Your Home?
Your first home, and perhaps even your next one or two, isn't necessarily the one you want to stay in forever. A starter home that you buy when you're a young couple or still free and single might not be suitable for a growing family. As your family needs space, you might start to think about the best way to give it to them. Many people will immediately think about selling and moving to a bigger home. However, extending or adapting your existing property is another option to consider. Maybe your house feels so much like home that you don't want to leave, but you know it's not quite right for ... read more
Money saving tips for when you have a new baby
One of the biggest expenses in family life can be when you have a new addition to the family. Everyone knows that having a baby comes with costs, but just how much might you need to spend? And how much of it is really necessary? It's a while back since I first wrote on here about how you can have a baby without it costing the earth, and I think that many of the tips and tricks I gave then still hold true today. This time around, my financial situation is very different to when I welcome Little Miss C into my life. This time around I don't still have everything from my first two babies, ... read more
7 Budget Friendly Ways To Update and Improve Your Home
Whether you have lived in your home for years on end, or you have just moved into a new place, stale home decor can really affect the way you view your abode. Usually, those of us who have lived in one place for a long time can easily ‘put up’ with an outdated home, without realising that major updates are needed. ‘Decor’ covers everything from the style of the sofa to the colour of the walls, but when people think of redecorating, they often think it’s a large cost. They instantly associate it with hefty bills surrounding ripping up carpets and investing in a new three piece suite. ... read more
Simple And Effective Tips For Organising Your Home
It’s harder to get through the day when our houses are in disarray. A straightforward task takes longer because we need to clear a space to work, or we get distracted by all the bits and pieces that are not where they should be. Everyone is guilty of this, at least every so often. There are long-term simple and effective tips for organising your home though, find out what steps you have have missed and how to achieve a tidy home. Storage solutions If you haven’t explored any storage solutions, then you won’t understand their power. Storage containers and flexible tubs just slip into the ... read more
Eight tips for planning a family vacation in Asia
The planning required to make any vacation a success can at times become intimidating once you know that the family and kids are coming as well. While fun and relaxation are the prime targets of any family holiday, achieving these goals means to literally go through a maize of selecting a hotel from hundreds, pouring over travel literature and scanning the net for the right flight and seat selection. Asia as a destination can be very enticing, but it is equally daunting, especially if you are a first timer and more so if there is a family in tow. Searching on Google will only confuse ... read more
Selling Your House For A Bigger Profit
Picture Source Selling a property can be an overwhelming undertaking. You might be eager to move into your new home, but you have to focus on getting the best possible deal for your old one. The bigger your profit, the more money you’ll have to spruce up your own abode. If you want to sell your house for a bigger profit then here are some smart ways to add value to your property. Make it feel larger. There are plenty of ways to give a house the illusion of size. You could declutter or even convert existing space; for example, the attic could become a guest bedroom. Of course, you ... read more
Better safe than sorry – treating your car with the respect it deserves!
As a busy mum I rely on my car. It's more than it just getting me from A to B. It's a safe way to travel with my children and without it I simply wouldn't be able to have them come and stay with me. Where we live is just too far away from their Dad's and their school to get there via any other route. Trust me I've looked. It'd be over an hour on a couple of buses and a train to do the journey any other way. When you compare that to 20-odd minutes in the car it's a bit of a no-brainer really. The thing is thought that cars can - and unfortunately do - go wrong. There are some problems ... read more